What the Heck... Bloody IDIOTIC MALE EGO...

What a day...

Me just went out for a gathering with my ex-co-worker...
Out to sunny Sentosa, it seems like a wonderful day...
Lalala to the beach and the sea!!!!!
One of my favourite places in the world!!!!!
XD

But then it's quite obvious that our group of people is not really that close...
Cos we unintentionally break off into 3 groups once in the MRT...
Group 1: me, ZW, YL
Group 2: B, E, JH
Group 3: HL, HX, YH, HM
Sigh~~

Then at Sentosa, Palawan Beach, our group splits into two...
One to go cycling, the rest to go play at the beach and swim...
So much for gathering...

The cycling group were really 'absent'...
Left us to take care of the bags without even bothering about us...

But the conflict happened when it began raining...
Boom... Shoorrhh...
Here comes the rain~
Left in the rain, in charge of the bloody bags, were me, YL, JH, B...
We, in the fast thickening rain, begin to pile all the bags and cover them up with a mat...
Then B started to call one of the people in the cycling group as to wonder why are they taking so long (we waited for them for more then half an hour)...
They told us that they were at the 7-11 store, which is less than a 5 minute walk from where we were...

So we waited and waited...
While the rain fall on us...
In vain...
For we found out later that they are staying at 7-11 to stay away from the rain...
Oh fine, so we quickly searched for a shelter which is close to our bags and have to squeeze with a bunch of people as well...
We were drenched and shivering with cold...
Cold wind blew against us...
Brrr...

We were still not angry with them then cos we try to understand that they are probably afraid of the rain to even come and save us...
But we hit the roof when they came to us RIDING IN A TRAM and WAVING AT US HAPPILY...
Then they beelined towards our bags and making SARCASTIC remarks...
E.g1: "Wah you all even have the brains to covered up our bags lar?"
E.g2: "Hey, it's not that we don't want to come back earlier, it's because the tram didn't come earlier, so it's NOT OUR FAULT." (in a highly irritating tone)

Without any form of gratitude or apology!!!

.....
Our face grows even darker than the sky above...
So we took our bags and stride off silently...
In the rain and took less than 5 minutes to reach the 7-11 store...
We were so bloody furious and hungry...
So while we were eating, we waited for their apology...
Only ZW and the HM (HM looked pretty reluctance) come forward to say sorry...
We tell them that we will only forgive if all of them come and apologise to us...
Then we took off again to shower...

Then after we had finished, ZW come to us to start explaining...
Blah blah about why they can't come to us earlier and such...
All of us, me and YL and B and a lil JH, begin our 'debate'...

#1: HM is sick so they don't want to walk in the rain cos of her...
Rebut: If she is sick, then she shouldn't even come to Sentosa to expose herself to the hot sun nor cycle even!!! So obviously she wasn't that sick as she did both, so what's a few minutes of rain??
Even if she doen't wants to get wet cos of that excuse, then what about the rest of the guys?? Can't they just leave a few to accompany her while the rest come to us to carry the bags and go to 7-11 together?? Surely they can't be that afraid of the rain??

#2: They are really sorry for leaving us in the rain...
Rebut: Don't see any of the guys coming up to apologise... Not sincere at all...

#3: If they weren't sincere, or heck care about us, they would not be sitting down now talking, they would be playing volleyballs or games liao...
Rebut: Ya, they are sitting down and doing NOTHING... No attempts to pacify us...
Oh and they can't exactly begin playing games much earlier as it was raining then...

#4: You can't expect guys to come and apologise, cos they got their pride or ego, it's very hard for them, must understand...
Rebut: UNDERSTAND MY FOOT!!!!! I HATE this PATHETIC REASON the most!!!
SO WHAT?? I DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT WHAT PRIDE OR EGO THESE FEW MISERABLE GUYS HAVE!!!
DO THEY NOT HAVE TO APOLOGISE FOR ANY WRONG THEY HAVE DONE JUST BASED ON THIS STUPID REASON???
WHAT ABOUT US GIRLS THEN?? DO WE NOT HAVE OUR OWN PRIDE?? MUST WE BOWED DOWN TO THEM?? OR JUST FORGIVE THEM BASED ON THIS??


F*#% IT!!!!!


So I said to ZW "THIS IS A BAD EXCUSE FOR BAD BEHAVIOUR!!!!!"
"I DO NOT ACCEPT IT!!!"
"TELL THEM TO COME UP TO US, NOT WE WALK UP TO THEM, AND LET THEM APOLOGISE!!!"
"ALL OF THEM!!! NOT ONE LESS!!! DON'T GIVE ME THE CRAP OF GUY'S EGO OR THEIR DAMN PRIDE!!!"
"I HAVE MANY MALE FRIENDS WHO HAVE NO PROBLEM SAYING SORRY WHEN THEY ARE IN THE WRONG!!!"
All of these in a loud, nearing yelling (probably reached aready) tone...

So poor ZW slunk back to that group...
Well I shouldn't have yelled at her cos she had aready apologise and it is not entirely her fault as I know her character inside out...
But I just couldn't helped it...
I'm so mad!!!

If they have tried to apologised earlier at 7-11, sincerely and unreluctantly, we would have forgiven them straight away...
But male 'pride' and 'ego'...
If I had a hammer...

After a while, ZW came back again to deliver the final straw...
She said "errmm... Different people have different point of view about this..."

In other words, some of them are not really sorry at all...
So B stormed away...
Me and YL and JH a bit shocked at her sudden departure...
JH chased up to her to beg her to stay for his sake(at this point of time JH is not really that angry with them anymore, for he is really close with some of them)...
B ignored him...
Me and YL started to follow, after all what is the point of staying...
JH beg us not to leave...
Along came HX from that group...
His first line "So what's up??"
(-_-;)
What's up, ya right, obviously he hasn't got a clue, ZW must be really lousy in conveying our message...
So I listed to him all of our reasons for being angry, and he sort of admit that they were in the wrong...
But he also said that not all of them feels sorry...
HL especially does not feel that he is in any wrong...
So when B called us to see if we want coffee, we walked away from them, leaving JH to return...
What an attemped by dear JH to show off his short-lived temper...

Ta-dah...
End of friendship...
Good for YL who constantly gets bullied and taken for granted by them...
Who needs friends like them anyway...
Oh but I'll keep ZW's and JH's...
About the rest, maybe HX since he did feel sorry... And maybe HM since she did say sorry I think...

But for the rest...

#%$#^%&^%*$&%&$&&%$^*%&^&$&$% to HL, YH, E.....
Be careful, I may put laxative in your food... Be very careful...

The End... Currently still too pissed off to write any further...