Maybe I should clarify some doubts and assumptions regarding the previous post...


1)
There seems to be an assumption that I'm talking to many people at once or to a specific group of people...

Errm... The answer is no...


2)
Therte's also the assumption these people are my friends or someone I know...

Or at least, assuming these people are of great importance to me...

Nope, sorry, they are not...

So there's nobody to lose...
And I will be glad not to see any of those types again...


3)
I find it highly improbable that any of it could be a misunderstanding...


...


Anyway, let me refresh your memory again lar:
1) I don't mince my words...
2) I am prone to speaking my mind...


It is mostly their fault...
Why am I so sure??
If only you could be there to witness all of those situations...
They should be glad I didn't lose my head and screamed at them...
(Some of my friends said that some of these people are crazy... Then maybe it isn't their fault...)


"...think about what you all are doing first before talking abt others..."
"you all shld think abt it..."

Hmmm... Let me try to comprehend your above statement...

Answer:
I should analyse my actions and decide whether it is justifiable for me to voice out my opinions and feelings, favourable or not, about the person/people in question, regardless of their actions...

Is it correct??
Because I cannot find any other version...

But why do you keep asking people to think, think, think (!!!) about what they are doing before they start talking about others???

Since when do I (or anybody else) need to think so much before we start to talk/complain/bitch about others???
Especially when those "others" are people who are of no importance in your life...

It would be very tiring and super restrictive if I weren't allowed even the freedom to voiced out my opinions and feelings...
Nor the venue for me to vent my anger and frustrations on...

Anyway, normally, we are capable of examining our actions and think (subconsciously or not), before determining within the first 3 seconds whether we are "justifiable" in voicing our opinions...

***Example:

Boy was rushing to get on the MRT... Man reading newspaper, standing in the way of the Boy... Boy accidently stepped on toe of Man...

Man: Owww!!!
Boy: Sorry!!!

A few minutes later...

Man to Friend: Just now got that stupid boy run so fast and step on my toe... Very painful leh, I bet he weighs 80kg...

Boy to Friend: Wah liao eh, I just missed the Mrt... Just now got that stupid Man block my way... Read newspaper can also block people way...

***Let just imagine if everybody were to think so much...***

Boy (thinking): I step on a Man's toe, making him feel such pain... If I didn't run, then I will not step on his toe... If I wasn't late, then I will not need to run... If I didn't need to go to school, then I will not be late for it... Therefore, I decided that I will not go to school!!! Thus I will be able to prevent any Man from the possible trama of me stepping on their toes!!!

Man (thinking): I block a Boy on his way to the Mrt, making him late for school... If I didn't stand in his way, I will not make him late... If I didn't read the newspaper, I will not unknowingly stand there... If I didn't have the desire to read and update myself on the world's current affair, then I will not need to read the newspaper... Hence I decided that I will not bother about the world anymore and allow myself to retreat into some remote mountains and meditate!!! So I will be able to prevent any Boy from being late to school and depriving them of education!!!

***End of Example

Abit extreme, but I was too bored...
Hahaha!!!

But if you want me to think har...
I would decide that I'm too soft on them...
So maybe I should challenge them to a duel or something...
(-___-;)


The only fault of mine, is that I should calm down and not get myself so work up...
Because these people are, afterall, insignificant...
I shouldn't get my blood pressure high because of them...
Very bad for health... Tsk tsk...
But anyway, I feel much better after venting it out on my blog...


By the way, why do you addressed it as we ALL??
('_') --??


***

Look at the big picture, and you will come to realise that it is nothing but a small matter...